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Will Speaking Russian Offend People in Kazakhstan?

If you are preparing for a year abroad in Kazakhstan, you may be wondering whether approaching people in Russian is helpful or disrespectful. I worried about exactly the same thing before I moved there. What I learned was that the question is more complicated than a simple yes or no.

Before I moved to Kazakhstan, I was genuinely worried that speaking Russian might offend people.

I had spent years learning Russian at university, and I was going to Kazakhstan partly because I wanted to become more fluent. However, I knew very little about the country itself.

I did not properly understand how Kazakh and Russian were used around the country. I had barely considered how the Russian Empire and the Soviet period continued to influence questions of language and identity in modern Kazakhstan.

This left me with an uncomfortable question. Was I about to move to an independent country and behave as though it were simply Russia with different scenery?

I did not want people to think that I saw Kazakhstan merely as a convenient place to practise my Russian. At the same time, my Kazakh was nowhere near strong enough for me to use it in ordinary conversation. My English could not carry me through every situation either.

So, what language was I supposed to speak?

Why the question felt so difficult

Before I arrived, I wanted one tidy rule that would prevent me from getting things wrong.

Perhaps I should always begin in Kazakh. Perhaps I should wait for the other person to choose a language. Perhaps speaking Russian first would make me appear ignorant.

The fact of the matter is that there was no single rule that could tell me how every person in Kazakhstan would feel.

People have different relationships with both Kazakh and Russian. Their feelings can be shaped by where they grew up and which language they use at home. Their understanding of Kazakhstan's past and future can also play a part. I could not reduce all of that to a language-etiquette flowchart, no matter how comforting one might have been.

What I could do was learn more about the country I was entering.

Me in my first week in Kazakhstan, 15th September, 2022!

Kazakhstan is not a Russian-language theme park

This is the phrase I keep coming back to.

Kazakhstan is not a Russian-language theme park built for somebody else's year abroad.

Of course, you can improve your Russian there. I went on to reach C2, and living in Kazakhstan played an enormous part in that. Russian is widely used, and for many people it is one of the languages through which they express their own Kazakhstani identity.

However, the fact that Russian is useful does not turn the country into an extension of Russia.

Kazakhstan has its own history and its own ongoing conversations about what national identity means. The country existed before the Russian Empire and lived through the Soviet period. Since independence, it has continued to define itself on its own terms. People do not all interpret those layers in the same way.

That was something I had not properly appreciated before moving there.

I had been so focused on whether my Russian would be good enough that I had neglected another form of preparation. I needed to understand the social context in which I would be using it.

What using Russian respectfully looked like for me

There was no single sentence I learned that suddenly made every interaction respectful.

Instead, I began listening more carefully. I learned more about Kazakhstan's history and paid attention to how people spoke about their country. I also stopped automatically filtering every Kazakh name and word through Russian pronunciation.

Pronouncing Kazakh words with a Kazakh pronunciation may seem like a small gesture, especially when the rest of your conversation is in Russian. In my experience, people often appreciated the effort.

More broadly, people could sense when my interest extended beyond the Russian language. They responded to genuine curiosity about where they were from and how life worked around them.

You do not need to arrive as a historian. You also do not need to pretend that you understand questions of identity which many people within Kazakhstan continue to discuss themselves.

You simply need to be willing to learn.

That willingness changes the questions you ask and the assumptions you make. It helps you approach the person in front of you as an individual, rather than as a convenient source of Russian practice.

The Russian conversation that opened up a friendship group

One of my most important Russian conversations actually happened while I was helping to run an English-speaking club at my university.

I started talking to someone who was not confident using English. I could have kept trying to drag the conversation along in the language of the club, but it was clear that neither of us felt particularly relaxed.

So I told them that I was learning Russian and decided to give it a go.

My Russian was not perfect. I still had to work hard to turn the thoughts in my head into ordinary sentences, rather than carefully constructed university Russian. Still, we could finally communicate more naturally.

That person later introduced me to their wider friendship group, most of whom also spoke very little English.

If I had waited until my Russian felt flawless, those friendships might never have formed. It was only by taking that first linguistic leap of faith that I gained access to a social circle outside the English-speaking bubble.

This taught me something important. Using Russian in Kazakhstan did not prevent me from respecting the country. In this case, Russian was the bridge that allowed me to connect with people I could not have got to know through English.

What mattered was the attitude I carried across that bridge.

Respect and confidence can grow together

Some students become so worried about making a cultural mistake that they withdraw altogether.

I understand the temptation. If you say very little, you cannot use the wrong word or make an awkward assumption. You also cannot form many meaningful relationships.

There is a balance to find here.

You can acknowledge that you still have things to learn while using the Russian you already have. You can ask people how they prefer to communicate. You can learn some Kazakh without pretending that a handful of memorised phrases make you culturally fluent.

Most importantly, you can remain open to being corrected.

Respectful communication does not require you to arrive knowing everything. It requires enough humility to notice when your assumptions do not match the reality around you.

Can you become fluent in Russian in Kazakhstan?

Yes, absolutely.

I sometimes sense that students feel they have to choose between wanting to improve their Russian and respecting Kazakhstan as its own country. My experience showed me that the two can sit comfortably together.

I developed my Russian because I used it to participate in real life. It helped me build friendships and solve practical problems. Eventually, it also helped me create a home for myself.

However, my experience became richer when I stopped viewing every interaction through the narrow question of how much Russian practice I could extract from it.

The people I met were not speaking exercises. They had their own reasons for choosing Russian or Kazakh in a given moment, and sometimes they chose another language altogether. When I became more attentive to that, my conversations felt more human and my Russian improved as a consequence.

Language learning worked best when it was part of living, rather than the only reason I was living there.

What I would recommend before your year abroad

If you are preparing to move to Kazakhstan, spend some time learning about the country before you arrive.

Look beyond the familiar facts. Read about how the past continues to influence current conversations about language. Listen to people from Kazakhstan discussing their own experiences, and remember that one person's view will not represent everybody.

Learn how names and common Kazakh words are pronounced. Pay attention to which language people use in different settings. Once you arrive, let observation guide you as much as the advice you received beforehand.

Finally, do not let your fear of getting it wrong silence you.

Your Russian does not need to be perfect before it can create a genuine connection. You can speak with curiosity and be honest about what you do not know. In my experience, that combination took me much further than trying to perform perfect cultural awareness.

Finally settled into a place I could call my own! (Flathunting really wasn't easy, especially due to the volatile political situation at the time)

Final thoughts

Before my year abroad, I asked, "Will speaking Russian in Kazakhstan offend people?"

By the end, I realised that I needed a better question:

How can I use Russian while showing that I understand where I am?

Russian can help you communicate and form genuine friendships in Kazakhstan. It can also help you live far more independently than English alone. However, it should sit alongside a real interest in Kazakhstan as Kazakhstan.

You are going to make mistakes. I certainly did. The aim is to approach the country with enough knowledge to avoid treating it like a backdrop, and enough openness to keep learning from the people around you.

If you are preparing for your Russian-speaking year abroad and want help working out how ready you feel, I would be happy to talk to you.

On a free call, we can discuss where you are going and the situations you currently feel least prepared to handle. We can also explore whether Steppe with Confidence could give you the practical and cultural preparation you need before you leave.

You can book a call for free here.

Matt 😊

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